Girls want to be treated by guys in a way that makes them feel feminine. The only way you can make a girl feel feminine when she is around you is by being a masculine man.
The raw truth is that most women in today’s society have mental issues. They continue to date men who beat them. I’m not saying that this is how girls want to be treated by guys, but she needs to feel an instant fear whenever she is about to cross you.
Women are attracted to men they respect, but to make a woman respect you doesn’t mean you have to hit her. You must be someone worthy of respect for her to give you the respect.
Here is how girls want to be treated by guys:
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They want you to be assertive.
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Girls want to be treated by guys assertively. What I mean by that is, you must stand up against her or you shouldn’t let her use you. The way girls want to be treated by guys is that, they want guys to teach them how they want to be treated.
The first step before anything to make a woman respect you is by setting boundaries. She has to know what you are willing to tolerate and what you will not.
Real feminine women don’t like the passive guy who lets women walk all over him. She wants you to be assertive and be able to speak up for yourself.
The thing is that most guys have been brainwashed by society into thinking to get a girl, you must be super nice and let her walk all over you. You may think doing that will make her like you more, but she will lose respect for you.
2. Being a leader is how girls want to be treated by guys.
The ability to be a natural-born leader instead of being a submissive man is how girls want to be treated by guys. Women don’t want a submissive man because he puts them in the masculine role they don’t want. When girls are in a relationship, they want to feel feminine which is the reason they choose masculine men.
Women want you to treat them as followers because it is the position they are comfortable with. It is important to note though, that for a woman to accept her feminine role, you have to be someone worth following. You must have authentic confidence that shows you know who you are as a man. The thing is that you cannot lead the conversation to where you want it to go unless you are confident.
3. They want you to show interest.
The way girls want to be treated by guys is that they chase men who are aloof. The way this works is that you have to show her some interest and then take all of your attention back.
When a girl knows that you like her or need a girlfriend, she will be less interested in you. The thing is that, when you are too nice to a girl she will know that you want her. The mistake that most guys make when trying to get a girl is giving her too much attention. Girls are reverse. You may think it’s what she wants, but the number one thing you must know about most women is that they are quick to get bored. Girls don’t like guys who chase them, but they want a guy they can chase. For a relationship to work, a woman must love her man more than he loves her.
I always found that the women I liked or the ones I showed interest in were less likely to like me the way I liked them, and as a result, whatever we had couldn’t work.
4. Being direct is how girls want to be treated by guys.
The truth that most men fail to understand is that girls want to be treated by guys directly. She wants you to be upfront with your intentions. The reason most guys always end up in the friend zone is that they don’t treat girls the way they want to be treated.
She has to know that you are someone who wants her romantically. If you introduce yourself as a friend or you give her friendly vibes, she will treat you as a friend.
Girls want a guy who speaks like a man and who is not afraid to be clear about what he wants. Girls want to be treated by guys in a way that puts them in a feminine position. The last thing any woman wants is a timid man who is too afraid to look her in the eyes and tell her what he wants.
5. They want you to check them.
The other way girls want to be treated by guys is that, they want a man who holds them accountable instead of the one who gives them a pass simply because they are women. Most guys who don’t understand female nature or who are not experienced with women think that they have to be soft to make women like them. The thing about women is that they want a man who will be able to put her in line whenever she gets out of it. The reason women always end up with bad boys is that nice guys don’t know how to teach women how to be women.
The thing is that, whenever a woman does something that doesn’t sit well with you, you must check her even if it’s a small thing because that is what she wants.
6. Not always being available is how girls want to be treated by guys.
When you are always eager to see her, it’s the more she will run away from you. When you stop showing interest, she will start showing interest through her body language.
Although she may say she wants you to give up your life for her, never listen to what a woman says but you must observe what she does. Women are controlled by their emotions to what they want. She may say she wants this, but her instincts drive her elsewhere.
Girls love the thrill of chasing a guy who doesn’t want them. If you are always calling her or being there for her when she needs you, she will quickly get bored with you. It doesn’t matter what anyone tells you, women love emotionally unavailable men. They may say they want a nice guy who is a shoulder to cry on but they always run after bad boys who don’t give a damn about them. As a man, you must have other things going on in your life, and women shouldn’t be the main priority.
7. Tease them.
You don’t have to always compliment women about how beautiful they are. You may think that’s what they want but women don’t want validation without earning it. The thing is, you have to be light in your teasing because you don’t want to offend her.
If a woman is good-looking, she has been told by many men. She hears it almost every day, so whenever she hears it, it doesn’t sound authentic. Being playfully teasing is how girls want to be treated by guys.
The thing is that women view men who are too nice as boring. They are attracted to playful and light-hearted men because the solemn type is too scary for most girls.
8. The other way girls want to be treated by guys is through complementing them.
The thing is, when you compliment a woman, it has to be genuine because a human brain can detect flattery. When you give a genuine compliment, you have made someone else’s day. A heartfelt compliment will make a girl think about you wherever she is.
Although some may say you shouldn’t compliment girls because it’s too validating what I say, you shouldn’t think if I say this it’s wrong, so I have to hold myself from saying genuine things I want to say.
Girls want to be treated by guys in a way that makes them feel beautiful and feminine, and there is no better way to do that than by complimenting her.
9. Never too nice.
The guy who broke her virginity in high school never took her on any date so what’s so special about you that you have to spend your hard-earned money on her? If you keep on telling women how beautiful or special they are or how they deserve better in life, they will quickly throw you in the friendzone. Women will not hate you for being nice, they will just not view you as someone they can date.
Being real instead of being nice is how girls want to be treated by guys because when you are nice, they will see you as boring.