The kind of man who is attractive is the one who exudes confidence. Confidence is not only attractive to women but other men are inspired by men with confidence. When you are a confident man, you will be the kind of man that other men wish they could be and women wish they could date.
There is more to being attractive than being aesthetically pleasing. Being attractive is the combination of your personality and looks. The thing is, just because you have the looks of a model doesn’t mean you are a pleasant person to hang out with.
When you are attractive in both personality and looks, you will be able to effortlessly attract women towards you and other men will want to be your friend.
Here is the kind of man that is attractive:
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A man with a sense of style.
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The stylish kind of man is attractive because it shows coolness. The thing is, whatever celebrities wear, most people would consider it fashionable. When you are a fashionable individual, most people will also consider you cool.
A stylish kind of man is attractive but this doesn’t mean you have to follow trends. Being stylish means you wear what you like with pride. You don’t have to wear things you don’t like to gain the approval of others.
Being stylish means you aim to stand out rather than being invisible in the crowd. A stylish man is more memorable because he is being himself and embraces his individuality. To be a stylish man, you must be more concerned about pleasing yourself than pleasing a bunch of people you don’t even care about. Having the attitude of doing things because you want to do them and you are not trying to make others like you is attractive in itself.
2. A focused kind of man is attractive.
The kind of man who is focused on adding value rather than trying to make money out of everyone is attractive. Having this mentality shows that you have a good character as a man.
A value-focused kind of man is attractive because people can tell when you are phony. Although money is important the aim of anything you are doing must be to add value. You may think you are smart for stealing from others but when you steal from other people, you are stealing from yourself. When you aim to make other people’s lives better, you will be rewarded and you will enjoy your rewards without feeling guilty.
3. A humble kind of man is attractive.
A humble kind of man is attractive because no one wants to be around someone who always talks about himself. Humility is attractive because it makes people feel at ease when they are around you as they will not have to prove themselves. When you don’t brag about who you are or the things you have, people will not feel intimidated when they are around you, thus they will enjoy your company.
Being humble means you are a good listener. Instead of being concerned about what you are going to say next, you will be able to stay still and be present in your conversations. When you give people your full attention and listen to them non-judgmentally, they will consider you as someone pleasant to be around.
True confidence is derived from humility. When you are confident, you won’t see a need to constantly talk about yourself because you have nothing to prove to anyone. You may think that lying about who you are or making yourself look big when you are small will make you attractive but it will not. The only thing that will happen is that women will lose more respect for you when you are that kind of a man.
4. The self-reliant kind of man is attractive.
An independent kind of man is attractive especially to women as they don’t like a needy man. The thing is as a man, you must have an outlet for your emotions because you don’t want to make other people your emotional punching bag.
No one wants to be used as an emotional tampon because that will only leave you feeling drained. As a man, you should find an outlet for your emotions because no one cares how you feel. People are more concerned about how they feel than how anyone else feels.
A self-sufficient kind of man is attractive because people want to be wanted rather than to be needed.
A man is not only supposed to be emotionally self-reliant, but he also needs to be financially free. Being independent as a man means that you are not a financial burden to others. The kind of man who lives a life of freedom is attractive because he is in control of his life. A man who works a job he hates is the most depressed man in the world. When you have to work eight hours a day doing something that kills your soul is not the healthy way to live your one life. When you are financially free, you will be able to make others envy you. They will wish they could have the kind of lifestyle you have.
5. A man who is true to himself.
An authentic kind of man is attractive because no one wants to hang out with a phony person or a scumbag. To be authentic, you must learn to be comfortable with being yourself or speaking your mind even if it makes others feel uncomfortable.
When you are authentic, it means you have a big personality that may intimidate others. You will notice that some people feel nervous when they are around you. You may think that they don’t like you, but they just don’t know how to handle you.
Being authentic means that you are original, and there will never be another you. It is instinctual to feel as though we can trust those who are true to themselves, as we believe they will be true to us.
You are an attractive man when you choose to be yourself instead of mimicking someone else. Loving yourself means that you are glad that you are the way you are, and you don’t wish you were someone else.
6. A man with high self-esteem.
A self-respecting kind of man is attractive because when you think highly of yourself, you will inspire others to do the same. When you have high self-esteem as a man, you will be able to attract to you like-minded people.
A man with high self-esteem genuinely believes that he is worthy of love and success. When you know your worth as a man, you will be able to command respect from those around you.
People are attracted to those who genuinely love themselves. The cold hard truth is that no one will love you unless you love yourself, just like you can never love anyone if you don’t love yourself.
Having high self-esteem means you know your worth and you are not going to settle for an unrewarding career. You dare to dream big because you believe that you are worthy of everything you want.
Self-esteem is important for a man because every man wants the best out of life, but the problem is that some men believe that they are not worthy of those things.
7. A man who chases success is an attractive kind of man.
A driven kind of man is attractive because he prioritizes his goals rather than getting a girlfriend. Your parents, friends, co-workers, or acquaintances may pressure you to get a girlfriend but if you succumb, you will become more miserable. You become sad when you live your life according to other people’s expectations. People who live on their terms and also don’t care what others think are more attractive.
The thing is that when you chase success as a man, people tend to look down on you and admire those who keep on changing girlfriends.